Hi, I’m Sara — founder of Refine Me Identity, a woman who has walked through the fire and came out refined — just as Isaiah 43 promises — not burned, but held and redeemed by God’s grace. I’m also a wife and mother.
This ministry was born out of my own journey of healing from several deep traumas, identity loss, and the painful grief and confusion that often follow. I know what it’s like to feel unseen, unloved, and unsure of who you are anymore. Carrying the new label “survivor of ______” — each one of us can fill in the blank of our survival story.
But I also know the healing power of Jesus — and how He gently rewrites our story when we surrender the pen. I praise God that now, when I look in the mirror, my first thought is no longer that of being a survivor. It’s this:
I am the daughter of the Most High God. I am His masterpiece. I am enough, and God loves me just the way I am.
Refine Me Identity exists to remind women like you that you are more than what happened to you. You are chosen, cherished, and created with purpose. Whether through devotionals, meaningful apparel, or heartfelt encouragement, I’m here to walk with you as you rediscover your God-given identity — one step, one prayer, and one breakthrough at a time.
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"Fear not, for I have redeemed you;
I have called you by name, you are mine.
When you pass through the waters, I will be with you;
and through the rivers, they shall not overwhelm you;
when you walk through fire you shall not be burned,
and the flame shall not consume you.
For I am the Lord your God,"
- Isaiah 43:1b - 3a (ESV)
Let's walk this out together
I do see you. If no one has ever told you before, let me say this clearly: I’m so sorry for what you’ve endured. You didn’t deserve the pain or the silence. The scars you carry — even the ones no one sees — are real.
I know, because I’ve been there too.
There were seasons in my life when I didn’t know who I was anymore. Trauma, grief, shame — they tried to steal my identity. But Jesus stepped into my story. And not only did He love me with His whole heart… He loved me with His entire life.
He healed my broken heart.
He brought peace to my anxious thoughts.
He showed me who I really am.
Now, I want to offer you the same hope.
Through devotionals, encouragement, and faith-based resources, I pray that Refine Me Identity becomes a place where you remember who you are — not just a survivor, but a daughter of the Most High God, and He is not done with you yet. God is still growing this ministry, and I believe that together, we’ll walk in deeper healing, stronger faith, and an unshakable identity.
